No. 17-0968
Filed September 13, 2017
IN THE INTEREST OF M.L.,
Minor Child,
E.B., Father,
Appellant.
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Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Scott County, Nancy S. Tabor,
Judge.
A father appeals the termination of his parental rights. AFFIRMED.
Michael A. Woods of Zamora, Taylor, Woods & Frederick, Davenport, for
appellant father.
Thomas J. Miller, Attorney General, and Kathryn K. Lang, Assistant
Attorney General, for appellee State.
Timothy J. Tupper of Tupper Law Firm, Davenport, guardian ad litem for
minor child.
Considered by Vogel, P.J., and Potterfield and Mullins, JJ. Tabor, J.,
takes no part.
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VOGEL, Presiding Judge.
The biological father of M.L., who was born 2013, appeals the termination of his parental rights.[1]
BACKGROUND FACTS.
The father, a longtime friend of M.L.’s biological mother, agreed to have sexual relations with her with the hopes of producing a child, which the mother and the mother’s wife could raise as their own. M.L. was conceived and born after the mother and the wife were legally married.2 The father maintained a friendship with the mother and even lived with the mother and her wife for a short time after M.L.’s birth. Beyond that, the father was largely absent from M.L.’s life, providing only minimal support either financially or emotionally. The father claims he intentionally stayed out of M.L.’s life out of respect for the marriage of the mother and her wife, and to allow them to raise M.L. as their daughter, with full parenting rights and without interference by him, the biological father.3 He also claims there was considerable stress between the wife and him, making any attempted contact with M.L. even more difficult.
[*3]M.L. came to the attention of the Iowa Department of Human Services (DHS) in October 2015 when there were concerns the mother was using illegal substances, including heroin, while caring for M.L. Although there is nothing in the record that would indicate the wife was also using controlled substances, the child was removed and placed with her maternal grandmother.[4] At that time, and for most of the time since then, the father has been incarcerated. With little effort by the father to respond to the DHS’s efforts to include him in these proceedings, the State sought to terminate his parental rights.5
[*4]SCOPE OF REVIEW.
Our review of termination proceedings is de novo. In re C.B., 611 N.W.2d 489, 492 (Iowa 2000).
GROUNDS FOR TERMINATION.
The father’s parental rights were terminated under Iowa Code section 232.116(1)(b), (d), (e) and (h). He appeals asserting a lack of clear and convincing grounds only under paragraph (b) and (e). With no challenge to paragraph (d), we affirm the termination on those grounds. See In re A.B., 815 N.W.2d 764, 774 (Iowa 2012) (“When the juvenile court terminates parental rights on more than one statutory ground, we may affirm the juvenile court’s order on any ground we find supported by the record.”).
BEST INTERESTS.
The father next claims it is not in M.L.’s best interests that his rights be terminated. See Iowa Code § 232.116(2). His primary argument is that, after he is released from prison, he should be given additional time to establish a relationship with his daughter.
As noted above, the father was incarcerated—actually beginning in February 2015—and remained so when the DHS first became involved with the family in October 2015. He was released on June 27, 2016. In the fall of 2016, the DHS contacted the father’s parole officer to make sure he was aware of the DHS’s involvement. He attended a review hearing on October 26, 2016. After the hearing, the DHS encouraged him to start participating in offered services. The father failed to follow up on the offer, and the DHS learned the father returned to prison on December 9, 2016. On March 3, 2017, the father contacted the DHS through a prison parent partner to see what services he could engage in. The DHS learned that the father was released from prison on April 13, but he was again incarcerated on April 29 on an assault charge.
[*5]The father now claims that his incarceration has prevented him from being in a position to reunite with M.L. and that he had participated in various programs within the prison system. However, he cannot use his incarceration as a justification for the lack of a relationship with M.L. See In re M.M.S., 502 N.W.2d 4, 8 (Iowa 1993). In addition, when requested to provide verification that he had participated in various programs while incarcerated, the father failed to respond to the request.
Under Iowa Code section 232.104(2)(b), a court may authorize a six- month extension of time if it determines “the need for removal of the child from the child’s home will no longer exist at the end of the additional six-month period.” The record confirms that the father, while occasionally expressing an interest in participating in services or being involved in M.L.’s life, has wholly failed to carry out any of his expressed intentions. The district court found:
This child has waited for 3 years for this biological father to decide that he wanted to revoke his agreement to allow the married couple to be the parents. . . . .... . . . [The mother and her wife] are still married, and [the wife] is providing exceptional care for the child, and the child is well bonded to her. The biological father has yet to even start to establish a relationship with the child and is currently unavailable to do so. The court then found it was in M.L.’s best interest to terminate the father’s parental rights and there were no impediments to do so. See Iowa Code § 232.116(2), (3). The record is bare as to any basis to grant the father an additional six months to work to “establish a relationship” with M.L. In re D.S., 806 N.W.2d 458, 474 (Iowa Ct. App. 2011) (“We will not gamble with a child’s future by asking him to continuously wait for a stable biological parent, particularly at such a tender age.”). We agree with the district court, it is in the best interests of M.L. that the father’s parental rights be terminated, and there are no impediments to termination.
[*6]We therefore affirm the termination of the father’s parental rights.
AFFIRMED.